Why do men lie?  That question probably will never be answered.  To protect myself from getting involved with ling men, even on a friendly basis, I ask no question about him.  Why?  It's simple, he will eventually tell and show you all you need to know about him.  For instance, tell him everything he wants to know about you and leave it at that.  Because if you turn around and ask him what he likes dislike etc., I guarantee he's going to say everything you just told him about yourself.  If you have children, I guarantee he will say he love children.  I had a face book friends, who I recently deleted for being a fake, want-a-be, cause I aint got time for no bodies drama.  Anyway, he said he loved children and that he hope God give him one.  Recently after the Prince/Princess had their first son, he's like, "I don't know why people are making such a big deal about this baby, he's just another baby not anything special!"  WOW! People celebrate the life of a child as they celebrated Jesus.  Didn't sound like anyone who love children?  This is very important because if you have children, you don't need this kind of man around you, your children or grandchildren.

I'm just saying, this has been my way of ruling out the fake, liing men just by simply allowing them to show me by their own actions and words what they are REALLY about.

Another helpful hint is to ALWAYS search for arrest backgrounds via the internet, because you don't need to get involved with a murderer, sex offender or any kind of dangerous behavior.  All you have to do is use your web browser, key in their first and last name followed by 'mugshot' and if they were ever arrested it will list it along with their mugshot and the crime they were convicted of.  If you pull up no information on that person, RED FLAG!!!! they could be using a fake name because if you are over the age of 18 years old, trust me, you are listed on the internet.  Google your name and see what appears.  Make sure the picture they post of themselves matches the picture posted on the internet.

Ladies, protect yourself, especially if you meet someone on the internet and plan to meet them in person.  Do your research before you invite anyone into your home.  Examine their online activity, what they post on face book what they watch and listen to on youtube or any social network, that alone will reveal a lot about a person.  Just google their name and whatever social site they have visited will appear alone side their name.  People don't realize it but a Social Network means a Public hangout.  So it you don't want your dirty laundry hanging out there, STAY OFF THE INTERNET POSTING YOUR BUSINESS!!!!

Again, be careful and safe.